BY: Wills Porter

The following was originally written on January 1, 2021. With my 21st transplant anniversary just hours away, I sat down and decided to reflect on the incredible experience of my personal transplant journey. This journey is not for the weak of heart. In many ways, this journey makes you a warrior. This journey has been challenging in many ways. I have lost four transplant brothers well before their time. Every time this happened, I was reminded of the responsibility I carry. That is, to honor my donor and live my life in a way that my friends would want to live. With that, I give you 21 years: A Reflection.
You won’t walk
You won’t talk
You may not even see
So.. you tell me, who am I going to be?
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21 years post and here I am.
Don’t say I am a victim because I am not a fan.
I prefer to say I can.
I can walk.
I can talk.
I can see.
So, this is how it is supposed to be.
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Today marks 21 years
But with a new year comes new tear.
Others have passed, so why am I here?
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Transplants are a fascinating thing.
Rarely do the good times come before the sting.
The sting of pain.. the sting of loss.
I guess everything in this life comes with a cost.
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Today marks 21 years
Today, I live with no fears.
Today, I celebrate the life I have while also fully understanding the cost.
For I know my life was gained because another was lost.
